The truth is different to everyone. Everyone has their own version of it, but ultimately does anyone every really know what the truth is? Everyone perceives things differently. This is what is so great, but also so terrible, about human nature. It's a double edged sword. I may see an accident and see one thing, while you may see something totally different.
Sometimes I write some personal things on my blog. I don't regret writing anything. It is a form of purging. I am able to get things off my chest, and if you read everything you will see that I talk about all kinds of different things. This is just my version of the truth.
A lot of times when I am talking about one thing, I hear from people thinking that I am talking about something different. Perception is everything. For the most part I don't name names, and there is a reason for it. Sometimes in the past on my myspace or even currently on my FB page I have said something and it was taken wrongly by someone. Is that my problem if they perceive that I am talking about them? No it isn't. I was told once by one of my Psych teachers when I approached them and asked them if they were talking about me, that if I assumed that they were specifically talking about me that I was either narcissistic, or I had a guilty conscience. This has always hit home to me. The same as when you assume you make an a$$ out of u and me.
I don't claim to be perfect. I am just me. I have said this before, and I will say it again. I may over speak at times, but I usually have the best intentions. I will not however, sit back and let others slander me as I have been accused of doing. It is simple, my life revolves around no one but my family. I talk about what affects my family. If you don't like what I say, don't read what I write. Plain and simple. If you didn't like watching a show on TV you wouldn't keep watching it. You would turn it off. The same can apply here. :)
Enough rambles for now
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